Guide · Amsterdam · 2026-10-15

Body to body massage in Amsterdam with hearing or sight loss: signals, the room and the arrival

Guests who are deaf or hard of hearing, or who have little or no sight, sometimes assume a body to body massage in Amsterdam is built for people who can follow spoken instructions or see the room around them. It is not, and the house's habit of arranging everything in writing happens to suit several of these guests unusually well.

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A large share of the communication in this work is touch and timing rather than speech. Still, a few things are normally said aloud: where to lie, when to turn over, whether the pressure suits. For a guest who cannot hear those words, or cannot see the gestures that go with them, a little planning keeps the hour smooth from start to finish.

Booking in writing, from the first line

Every booking here is arranged in a written thread, so a deaf or hard-of-hearing guest needs no phone call at any stage. A blind or low-vision guest using a screen reader follows the same thread. Say what you need in the first message: that you will not hear a knock, that you would rather know by message when she reaches the corridor, that you use a cane and will meet her at the room door. The booking page lists the four facts every message carries.

Signals for a body to body massage in Amsterdam without spoken words

Agree a few simple signals before the session begins. A tap on the shoulder before she asks you to turn. One tap from you for lighter, two for firmer, a raised hand for a pause. Hearing aids and sound processors usually come off before oil is used, so even guests who hear well with them gain from settling the signals in advance. If you lip-read, ask her to speak to you face to face before you lie down, while you can still see her clearly.

Low vision and the room

For a guest with little sight, the room matters in a very practical way. She may need to move a chair, clear a space or lay towels on the floor. Ask her to describe where she is putting things, and to return them to where they stood before she leaves, so that a chair or a bag does not end up in your path later in the evening. If a guide dog is staying in the room, mention it in the thread so she knows before she arrives.

The arrival

She arrives forty to sixty minutes after the hour is agreed. A guest who will not hear the knock, or cannot see through a spyhole, can say so in the thread and agree in advance how her arrival will be signalled and how she will introduce herself. These are small adjustments and they are routine. The page on limited mobility covers stairs, lifts and buildings if those matter to you as well.

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The questions this one tends to bring with it

Questions

I am deaf. Do I need to speak to anyone at any point?

No. The booking is arranged in writing from the first message to the confirmation, and in the room a few agreed signals cover anything that would otherwise be said aloud. Write that you are deaf in the first message so that the arrival and the signals are planned before she sets out.

Can I keep my hearing aids in?

You can, although many guests take them out once oil is in use, because oil and small electronics are a poor pairing. Whether they stay in or come out, agreeing a couple of tap signals before you lie down means nothing in the hour depends on hearing.

I am blind. How will I know what she is doing in the room?

Ask her to say what she is doing as she sets up: where the towels go, where her bag sits, what is being moved and why. A short spoken description at the start is usually enough, and you can ask for everything to be put back exactly where it was before she leaves.

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the message

Written enquiries, in English, at any hour of the clock

Say which door she is coming to

Give the building or the district, the hour you want her there and how long for. Anything about your own body that changes how the room should be set goes in the same message, and it is read as a practical note rather than as an apology.

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Longer questions go to contact@bodytobodymassageinamsterdam.com, which is read more slowly than a booking thread.